Managing Your Finances During a Divorce

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What we'll cover:

  • Divorce often brings major financial changes that can feel difficult to navigate.
  • It’s natural to focus on the big question of who will walk away with what, but it’s also important to take practical steps that could help protect your financial interests.
  • It’s important to work with a seasoned divorce attorney who can help ensure your specific needs and goals are met throughout the legal process.

Divorce is one of the most significant life transitions a person can experience. Along with the emotional stress, it often brings major financial changes that can feel difficult to navigate, especially if you’re going through the process for the first time or haven’t had to manage the household finances previously.

Additionally, if you’ve never had to manage a budget, make loan payments, or file taxes, then a divorce can add even more pressure to an already challenging period.

However, thoughtful preparation, organization, and planning can help you manage the change with confidence.

How divorce can impact your finances  

From shared bank accounts and mortgages to retirement savings and childcare costs, many couples choose to combine their finances, and a divorce can substantially affect this arrangement.

To cover the entire cost of previously shared expenses, many divorced people need more than a 30% increase in income, on average, to maintain the same standard of living they had before the separation. And while financial strain can affect anyone, women often experience the brunt of the impact, especially during the first year post-divorce.

However, every marriage, and divorce, is unique. That’s why you may want to consider working with a financial advisor who has experience helping individuals navigate a divorce. The right advisor can give you a clear picture of where you stand financially and how your income, retirement, and other expenses might be impacted after a settlement is reached.

Of course, you’ll also want to hire a seasoned divorce attorney who is responsive, understands your situation, and can provide tailored legal advice, ensuring your specific needs and goals are met throughout the process. 

Planning ahead  

The first step when preparing for a divorce is to organize your important financial documents. This could help protect your finances and reduce unpleasant surprises later in the process.

Make sure to gather copies of monthly bank statements, tax returns, credit reports, and other financial records. It’s also important to monitor your credit score and avoid making any major purchases if you can. Remember, now isn’t the time to make major financial changes.

Take the time to consult with your attorney, accountant, and/or financial advisor first before making any decisions.

You’ll also want to revisit your current financial priorities. This is when you should rework your monthly budget and make sure you have enough cash to cover the essentials and pay off one-time bills, such as legal fees or deposits on a new home (if you plan on moving out).

Creating an emergency fund should also become a top priority as you face this new chapter on your own. 

Understanding the division of assets

“She gets the house. He gets the airline miles.” This might be what comes to mind when you hear the term division of assets. But just like everything else in a divorce, determining who gets what, and why, isn’t always so easy.

Location matters: Where you file for divorce plays a crucial role in determining how the property is split. For instance, generally speaking: 

  • Community property states view assets and debts acquired during the marriage as jointly owned by both spouses and will typically divide them equally.
  • Equitable distribution states divide marital assets and debts based on what the court considers fair, which may not always mean a 50/50 split. Courts may consider factors like the length of the marriage, each spouse’s financial situation, contributions to the marriage, and future earning potential.
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If you have questions about your state’s divorce laws concerning the division of assets, reach out to an attorney for guidance. 

Good to know: Be aware that shared debt can also cause complications, despite what your divorce agreement may state. Even if the agreement assigns responsibility for certain debts to one party, creditors can still pursue both you and your spouse if both of your names appear on the account.

In other words, if your spouse failed to meet their payment obligations, that could damage both of your credit scores and lead to potential legal issues. That’s why it’s important to address these potential complications proactively with your attorney.

Planning for post-divorce financial responsibilities 

Once your divorce is finalized, it’s time to think about how your new circumstances will play a role in both your short and long-term financial goals. For example, will any potential alimony or child support payments affect your monthly budget?

Taking the time to ask yourself the important questions can help you plan ahead and hopefully avoid any unexpected frustrations. While divorce can bring uncertainty, staying organized and clear-headed will help protect your finances in both the short and long term.

Remember, everyone’s situation is different, but understanding the big picture, asking the right questions, and thinking carefully about your future needs can help reduce some of the stress surrounding major financial decisions.

Keep in mind that you don’t have to navigate a divorce alone. Experienced divorced attorneys and financial advisors can explain your legal rights, review your financial concerns, and help you make informed decisions, so that you can step into the next phase of your life feeling confident and in control. 

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